What remains when everything is gone?
- Özlem
- Jun 8
- 2 min read
a piece about the things you can’t pack.

The walls are bare, the table empty, the drawers wide open. Pale patches in the wooden floor mark the spots where furniture once stood. Traces everywhere – small signs of a life that once lived here.
We’ve sold, given away, and packed almost everything.
And yet, the house is still full.
Not visibly – but tangibly.
There’s the imprint of our life in the parquet – where the aquarium stood for years.The small scratch on the doorframe, made while moving furniture, never painted over.The click of the hallway light switch – always a bit too loud.The tiny dent in the kitchen countertop from the first loaf of homemade bread. The smell of oil paint when I was painting – quietly immersed, completely within myself.The sound of my son’s guitar when he was practicing a new song or playing something just for me. The rain tapping on the glass roof of the conservatory – sometimes soothing, sometimes melancholic. And the crackling of the fireplace on long winter evenings, when it was already dark outside and time slowed down a little inside.
These are the things you can’t put into boxes. They stay – like a fine layer of memory on everything we touch. And maybe it’s exactly these things that truly matter.
What remains when everything else goes?
A smile when a certain song plays. A piece of routine in the way you hold your coffee cup.
A deep exhale when you step into the quiet at the end of the day.
And the way we look at each other – changed. Softer. More open. Maybe a little more vulnerable.
We thought letting go meant owning less. But the emptier the house became, the more we realized how much we were actually taking with us.
Not in our luggage. But in our hearts.
The warmth of a home.
The stories of the things that accompanied us.
And the quiet knowing:
Home isn’t what stays behind –
It’s what we carry forward.
Within us.





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